Welcome to my new blog

I'm in the process of updating my site. For now, I've imported my old blog posts and I think you'll find many are still worthwhile. Most were written by my submissive or guests.

Glad the thrift store staff can’t read my mind

They're not doing anything kinky (yet), but I wanted to share my latest doll acquisitions. There's a thrift store next to where I buy groceries and I regularly check for pervertables -- in this case, dolls with bendable arms and legs. I mean, what good is a doll that can't kneel?

Seven Dimensions of Dominance

Wearing My Lady’s collar, figuratively and often literally, doesn’t stop me from thinking about the qualities I find appealing in dominants in general. What follows is a list of the top few, approximately in descending order of importance. I’m not nearly presumptuous enough to regard them as some kind of gold standard that everyone should …

BDSM Vignette: Up on the Stage

By Wheldrake   ~~~ Two of my recurring little fantasies are being tortured in front of a crowd of spectators and being “whored out” by a dominant, either for kinky purposes or for mundane tasks like editing. I should stress that the following vignette, which combines the two, is pure fiction – but if you think …

The Elegant, Implacable Efficiency of Handcuffs

I can appreciate the visual appeal of a body in the embrace of elaborate Japanese ropework or the quirky creativity of immobilising a man in an upright coffin with an inflatable lining, but on the whole My Lady and I are both on a different and much more pragmatic page when it comes to bondage. …

Hints, Commands and Explicitness

I'm required to run all my posts by My Lady before I put them on the blog. Sometimes she waves them through, and sometimes she tells me to make changes. When I sent a draft of my earlier post on “hot dystopias”, she responded with: I like your blog post overall and, in particular, your …

Wicked Wonderland – New Lyrics to an Old Song

To my submissive brain there's something intrinsically erotic about winter, the season when nature becomes stark, unforgiving and even a bit cruel. At its best, winter torments us with cold, howling winds, shows us who's boss by dumping snow all over our streets and driveways, and gives us a dominant's harsh choice between confining ourselves …

Hot Dystopias – My Fantasies Of Totalitarian Control

I've never heard George Orwell described as an erotic writer, but 1984 contains passages that work for me at that level. The following one, for example, leading up to the arrest of the protagonist Winston and his lover Julia: It was starting, it was starting at last! They could do nothing except stand gazing into …

e[lust] #64

Below is a copy of the November edition -- Enjoy! Elust #64 Photo courtesy of Cheeky Minx Welcome to Elust #64 - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here …

Earning Pleasure The Hard Way

By Wheldrake, with my commentary ~~~ When I began taking orders from My Lady back in 2012, I expected that putting some restrictions on my masturbatory activities would be fairly high on her agenda. However, she turned out to be surprisingly permissive on this point until just a couple of months ago, when she must …